In our talk about despair, I thought it important to mention that despair can also happen after you’ve discovered that you’ve made a significant amount of progress down the wrong dang road.  Now not only is your time “wasted”, but…

If you’re talking about a tall tale, I can’t say. If you’re talking about the critter 1200-2000 lbs. Conclusion:  At least the four legged furry variety of bull weighs more than me.

We’ve been talking about the big fat cycle and leading up to the big dark daddy–despair.  This is when we’ve enjoyed the magical thinking, built up the fantasy and fallen down and given up.  Despair is when we say always…

Total length of bridge, including the part on land: 5,989 feet  Total height of the bridge towers above water: 276 feet and 6 inches  Height of bridge towers below water: 44 feet 6 inches on the Brooklyn side,  78 feet…

So often what happens in the surrender portion of the Big Fat Cycle is that we believe small setbacks are automatic precursors to catastrophic failures.  I promised myself I’d blog six days this week.  I didn’t get a blog in…